The Inward Danger of Hypocrisy

It is likely that each reader has been hurt by a hypocrite. It is also quite likely that each has played the hypocrite and hurt others. Hypocrisy’s English etymology springs from two parts – hypo and krei – which, when combined, mean to “under discriminate.” Its Greek origin comes from a word meaning to “answer a fellow-actor.” Together, these ideas demonstrate one whose false appearance results in using a lesser standard of judgment for self than for others. Therefore, Jesus warned about the dangers of playing the hypocrite: “You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye” (Matthew 7:5 ESV). Hurt happens when one has a façade of godliness and a heart of wickedness. There are also inward dangers for the chronic hypocrite. First, there is the danger of using the “self-standard,” which views everything done or not done by others from the perspective of what is being done or not done for “me.” Motives are assigned and those who fail to measure up to the “self-standard” are written off as uncaring or unconcerned. Loneliness ensues because this attitude prevents much-needed friendships: “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24 NKJV). “Closer than a brother” friendships cannot be achieved because hypocrisy relegates anyone willing to speak truth in love as an antagonist. Taken to extremes, the hypocrite sees others in only two categories: those who can be used and those who do not care. The second danger is depression and anxiety. The inner turmoil of fronting godliness from an ungodly heart destroys peace of mind. Wanting to be perceived as godly while refusing to make the necessary changes requires two-facedness, with the constant playacting creating bitterness of spirit. The Lord stated, “If your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light” (Matthew 6:22b ESV). His admonition is for single vision that aligns the outward and inward, thus preventing the animosity that occurs due to deception. While it is easy to play the hypocrite, it is difficult to enjoy the role. May each hear the Lord’s call for inward godliness that manifests itself in a godly life. This will clear away the inner angst of double standard as well as allow friendships that can prove eternally beneficial.